Complexity VS Simplicity

What’s the difference between simple and complicated matters?
In my opinion, complicated matters can be made simple if one is able to look at things from a different perspective and think in a simpler way.
So, simplifying complicated matter may be one of the solutions to difficult problem.
However, if we look at problems with judgments that are too simple, aren’t we just making ourselves believe that things are just that simple when sometimes the actual fact is much complicated than what we thought?
After all, it’s not always what we think is what it is.

Some people say simple things are always hard,
But I personally think what makes simple thing hard is the failure to face the problem.
Certainly, different people have different methods of countering their problems,
Many prefer to share their problems with their closest friend,
Certain people like to voice out their dissatisfaction to others,
Some like to pen it down for their own revisions,
And only a handful of people would confront their problem and solve it intelligently.

I believe confront directly with the problem is the best way of all.
Anyway, no offense, I’m not saying that sharing your problem with your friend is not a good idea.
Sometimes, it’s good if you have someone trustworthy to share your problems or secrets with, and to give you a second opinion on your situations.
But that doesn’t always happen.

Anyway, bear in mind that different people have different understandings and
different people comprehend things differently.
Since everyone has different intelligence, sometimes misinterpretation may occur when you share your problems with people.
And we must remember words could spread, like a virus.

Imagine if everytime words spread, people misinterpret a little.
No matter what message people got in the end,
It probably has diverged from your original meaning and turned into a misunderstanding,
A minor or a serious one~
Imagine how terrible can that be…

Sometimes things may just started with a small misunderstanding,
Many people just don’t bother to solve the problem,
Some like to accumulate problems,
Some just want to avoid quarrels,
Some are scared to face problem,
Some didn’t even know what the problem is,
But most likely, people will talk about their problems to others,
as to complain or to get a second opinion on whatever problem.
without realizing that this could actually turn simple things complicated.

Again, I’m not saying sharing problem with friends is not good,
Just that, sometimes we’re wise enough to make our own rational decision to solve our own problem,
But somehow, we just lacked courage to confront with problems, too many worries~

Summing up my points:
1^st, always look things from different angles.
2nd, share your problems only with someone reliable.
3^rd, different people see things differently, so misinterpretations are unavoidable.
4th,  dare to face problems.
Lastly, don’t make simple things complicated.

=)